Is “Just When I Needed You Most” a Beautiful Song or an Anthem to Stalking?

Answer: It’s about a stalker.

Such beautiful lyrics and vocals (orignally written and sung by Randy Van Warmar, RIP). Until you think about…then you realize that it’s a painful, blue-pill lament. Clearly, this is a man without game. So he’s forced to pine over a lost woman. He lacks the abundance mindset. An alpha male understands that his stock is always high. If he’s unleashed onto the market, then a line of suitors will await. Clearly, this is not an Alpha male.

You be the judge…

You packed in the morning and I
Stared out the window and I
Struggled for something to say
You left in the rain
Without closing the door
I didn’t stand in your way

But I miss you more than I
Missed you before and now
Where I’ll find comfort, God knows
‘Cause you left me
Just when I needed you most

(Left me, just when I needed you most)

Now most every morning I
Stare out the window and I
Think about where you might be
I’ve written you letters
That I’d like to send
If you would just send one to me

‘Cause I need you more than I
Needed before and now
Where I’ll find comfort, God knows
‘Cause you left me
Just when I needed you most

(Left me, just when I needed you most)

[Instrumental Interlude]

You packed in the morning I
Stared out the window and I
Struggled for something to say
You left in the rain
Without closing the door
I didn’t stand in your way

Now I love you more than I
Loved you before and now
Where I’ll find comfort, God knows
‘Cause you left me
Just when I needed you most
Oh, yeah
You left me
Just when I needed you most

You left me
Just when I needed you most